Did You Know?
- She needs you to be supportive and listen.
- It’s OK to have mixed feelings and even be scared.
- The decisions you make now will always be with you.
- The Pregnancy Help center has resources to help you both.
THE DOs
1) Listen. She will want to talk about what she is feeling. 2) Stay calm. She needs your support now more than ever. Even if you’re scared, offer your support at all times. 3) Talk about it – it’s OK to express your emotions. 4) Gather all the facts. You both have options for the future. 5) Express yourself honestly – it’s normal to have feelings of anger, frustration and fear. But make sure she knows she is not alone.THE DON’Ts
1) Don’t walk away, you are an equal part in this situation. 2) Don’t pressure her. Whatever decision is made, you need to make it together. 3) Don’t forget. You have a very active role in this situation. Listen to input as well as give your thoughts.
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